tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8102215846501723418.post4816843770052370300..comments2023-11-05T01:57:25.693-07:00Comments on come into my closet: Healingmile191http://www.blogger.com/profile/12948235476841214379noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8102215846501723418.post-47049397373739618712012-01-15T12:55:05.654-08:002012-01-15T12:55:05.654-08:00Mile I hope you are doing okay with recovery from ...Mile I hope you are doing okay with recovery from your surgery. Hoping this year will be a good one for you. Safe hugs.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8102215846501723418.post-75427250123549883492011-12-17T06:56:20.622-08:002011-12-17T06:56:20.622-08:00oh my, tumors I have missed so much because I have...oh my, tumors I have missed so much because I have been so self absorbed. I am so sorry Ive been away my friend. my prayers are with you. I am going to go and read more of your posts and get caught up please forgive me.Psych Clienthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17311029286506932562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8102215846501723418.post-76537182791013451572011-12-13T15:15:29.610-08:002011-12-13T15:15:29.610-08:00Good to hear from you Mile. Safe hugs to you.Good to hear from you Mile. Safe hugs to you.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8102215846501723418.post-43039016669077693872011-12-13T10:57:15.874-08:002011-12-13T10:57:15.874-08:00That is a beautiful post! I feel for you! And I lo...That is a beautiful post! I feel for you! And I love the fact that you give me hope and remind me that there is more than just the abuse side of things. There is me, and I am me no matter what. :)Larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16061858832112755993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8102215846501723418.post-46411204870447096322011-12-10T06:33:32.774-08:002011-12-10T06:33:32.774-08:00It may take a moment for your comment to appear on...It may take a moment for your comment to appear on the site.1 CommentClose this window Jump to comment form Marcia said...<br />The fact is that it feels like abuse because it is abuse--emotional abuse--and biting your tongue is pretty much avoiding confrontation which is the very food that feeds abuse. You must confront and that does not mean waiting to lose it and letting your tongue rule over you. That means you ruling over your tongue and using it appropriately vs. covering it all up. As long as sin (and emotional abuse is sin) is not confronted, it is like a fire that consumes everything in its path. You are concerned about your children, as all good mothers are, but this fire will spread to them too if you don't confront. <br />If you can remember one word out of my comment, remember CONFRONT. Confrontation is NOT conflict, it is simply light shed on truth. Most people avoid it because they fear the conflict that typically follows when light is shed, but it's well worth it to bring on the light. BRING ON THE LIGHT!!!<br /><br />I will keep you in my prayers and remember that God has NOT called us to submit to abuse. We have a choice, to break the cycle, especially for your children. <br /><br />This comes to mind for your Mr. B: <br />Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ...For husbands, this means love your wives, JUST AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH (His Bride). He gave up his life for her...Ephesians 5 By the way, your part to submit NEVER includes abuse of any kind. <br /><br />Now, this one's for YOU:<br />Fear not; you will no longer live in shame. Don’t be afraid; there is no more disgrace for you. You will no longer remember the shame of your youth and the sorrows of widowhood. For your Creator will be your Husband; the Lord of Heaven’s Armies is his name! He is your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel, the God of all the earth.<br />For the Lord has called you back from your grief—as though you were a young wife abandoned by her husband, says your God.~Isaiah 54:4-6 (I would read the entire chapter)<br /><br />Blessings.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8102215846501723418.post-21987143043003872112011-12-10T06:31:03.829-08:002011-12-10T06:31:03.829-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com